How Deep Can You Get This Month?

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Welcome to Volume II of The Purposeful Performer. We’re kicking things off in this volume with Learning Path 5: Financial Strategy—Turn your commissions into asymmetric wealth and optionality. This is lesson #1 of this series.

Most financial budgets are built for people with predictable paychecks. Yours isn’t predictable.

One quarter, you’re flush with a six-figure commission. The next, you’re waiting on a deal to close while your burn rate stays the same. The answer isn’t a better spreadsheet—it’s a ranked list on a single page.

Every month, you list your financial needs and goals in order of importance. You start from the top and use your income to cover each item as far as it goes. In a good month, you can cover everything. In a tough month, you make sure the most important things are taken care of first. This way, you make decisions ahead of time, not when you're stressed about money.

Today, I’ll break down the system.

A quick note: I'm not a financial advisor, tax professional, or attorney. Everything I share here is educational and based on what worked for me, not personalized advice for your situation. Before making financial decisions, consult a qualified professional who understands your specific circumstances. No guarantees, no promises of results. It’s your money, so it has to be your decisions in the end.

Here’s the problem with traditional budgeting for someone earning variable income: it assumes you know what’s coming in.

You don’t.

Maybe Q1 brings a $180K commission from a deal that finally crossed the finish line. Maybe Q2 brings nothing because procurement is sitting on three red-lined SOWs. Maybe Q3 surprises you with an accelerator kicker nobody saw coming. The income line on your chart looks like a seismograph, not a salary.

And yet your expenses don’t care. Mortgage is due the first of every month. Kids’ tuition hits quarterly. Your insurance premium doesn’t wait for procurement to countersign.

So most sellers do one of two things:

Neither builds autonomy. Both leave you reactive.

Priority-based budgeting—the core concept in this lesson—replaces both patterns with a third option: a single, ranked list that tells every dollar where to go before it arrives.

You build one list. Ranked strictly by priority. Your non-negotiables sit at the top—housing, utilities, groceries, insurance, minimum debt payments. These are your “keep the lights on” items. They get funded first, every single month, no matter what.

Below that, you layer your next priorities: additional debt paydown, emergency fund contributions, retirement savings, health expenses. These are your “build the foundation” items.

Below that: investment contributions, business expenses (more on this in Lessons 10-11), giving, and discretionary spending. These are your “accelerate” items.

At the very bottom: lifestyle upgrades, big purchases, vacations, the things you want but don’t need. These are your “reward” items.

Each month, you start at line one. You fund your way down.

In a monster month, say when you just got paid on a $6M TCV deal, you fund all the way to the bottom and beyond. In a lean month, you stop wherever the cash runs out. The list protects what matters most.

The brilliance is in the design: the hard decisions are made once, during a calm moment, not repeated every month in the middle of a financial crunch. You’re not relying on willpower. You’re relying on the list.

Here’s where it stops feeling like a chore and starts feeling like a challenge: How deep can you get this month?

Think of your list like levels in a game. Funding your non-negotiables is Level 1—that’s survival. Hitting your foundation items is Level 2—that’s stability. Reaching your acceleration items is Level 3—that’s progress. Getting all the way to the bottom? That’s a perfect month.

You don’t need a “normal” month. You just need the list. The list is the game board. Your income is the dice roll. And instead of wondering where your money went, you’re playing to see how far you can go.

Over time, you start to notice patterns. You realize which months are historically strong (hello, Q4 accelerators) and which are lean (hello, Q1 ramp). You start to plan around that rhythm instead of being surprised by it.

And the anxiety of variable income starts to quiet down. Not because you’re earning more, but because you finally have a system that works regardless of what shows up.

In a lot of ways, this frees you up to focus on the craft, and when you are operating at your highest standards, the bigger deals and money take care of themselves.

Morgan Housel tells a story in The Psychology of Money about Ronald Read, a Vermont gas station attendant who quietly accumulated $8 million by the time he died. Meanwhile, a Merrill Lynch executive with an Ivy League education went bankrupt. The difference wasn’t income. It was behavior. It was having a system that ran independent of the size of the paycheck.

Your version of this story is playing out right now.

Somewhere, a seller earning $250K with a priority-ranked list is quietly building more runway than a seller earning $800K who funds lifestyle first and saves whatever’s left. The income isn’t the variable that matters. The system is.

Ramit Sethi’s concept of “conscious spending” in I Will Teach You to Be Rich flips the traditional budget on its head. Instead of tracking every latte, you design a system where the big things are automated and the small things don’t matter.

Priority-based budgeting takes this a step further for variable income: you don’t just automate—you rank. Because when your income fluctuates by $100K+ quarter to quarter, “automate everything” breaks down. What doesn’t break down is a ranked list that flexes with your cash flow while protecting what matters most.

The reason this works psychologically is subtle but important: it removes the monthly negotiation with yourself. Every seller knows the feeling—a big check clears, and suddenly you’re having an internal debate. Do I invest this? Do I pay down the car? Do I finally book that trip? By the time you’ve deliberated, half the money has evaporated into “stuff” you can’t even name. The list eliminates the debate. The decision was already made. You’re just executing.